Before I say anything, this isn't a sympathy thread! Just a confused rant.
Over the weekend I found out my partner was cheating. It wasn't a conventional relationship to begin with, but he just was not the sort of guy you would expect to be doing this kind of thing. My family are shocked and so are my friends....
Turns out I was his bit on the side, he has a girlfriend of 4 years in London, was arranging to fly a girl over from Sweden who he had met on holiday....numerous shag pals in his area, and me, his girlfriend up in Wigan.
I honestly do not understand the mentality of cheating. Is it the thrill of getting away with it? Because he must have been busy! Is it just enjoying having several lives and several peoples attention? Sex? I just don't know.
Makes me think about Tiger Woods and his behaviour. Has anyone ever been cheated on like this? Or cheated on somebody? I was actually like a mad woman yesterday when I found out....and today I'm just very hurt and confused!
Over the weekend I found out my partner was cheating. It wasn't a conventional relationship to begin with, but he just was not the sort of guy you would expect to be doing this kind of thing. My family are shocked and so are my friends....
Turns out I was his bit on the side, he has a girlfriend of 4 years in London, was arranging to fly a girl over from Sweden who he had met on holiday....numerous shag pals in his area, and me, his girlfriend up in Wigan.
I honestly do not understand the mentality of cheating. Is it the thrill of getting away with it? Because he must have been busy! Is it just enjoying having several lives and several peoples attention? Sex? I just don't know.
Makes me think about Tiger Woods and his behaviour. Has anyone ever been cheated on like this? Or cheated on somebody? I was actually like a mad woman yesterday when I found out....and today I'm just very hurt and confused!