Dreams of passed away loved ones.

[stetheboro]

Any Dream Doctors physcologists here?

OK so its coming up near 6years since my Father passed away of a heart attack and as of late Ive been having dreams where we are together again the last 2 nights for sure that I can remember. Every time I dream about him even dreams in the past always seem to end the same way, in arguing and sometimes mild violence. Now I can say that I was never the subject of domestic violence etc but I'm just confused at why I cant have a simple happy time with him.
Is it just a way of feeling angry that he left me and my sister and my way of bereavement?

Dunno what it is but its horrible to wake up to (which is instantly) and hardly sets the day going in the right direction.

 

[Northern Star]

what my book says:

To see and talk with your dead parents in your dreams, represent your fears of losing them or your way of coping with the loss. You are using your dream as a last opportunity to say your final good-byes to them.

To dream violence is directed to yourself, represents self punishment and guilt. You may be feeling helpless or vulnerable in some area of your life. Violence toward others in your dream, suggests that you may be fighting or struggling against aspects of your own Self.?

sounds to me like you are having a difficult time letting go, always worse this time of yr too, or birthdays etc. x

i lost my mum about 5 yrs ago always creeps on us at xmas time

 

[stetheboro]

Cheers for that it does actually make sense as well. Just wish the 2 things were not connected but at least now I have some idea whats going on.

Ah well I just did a touch of tattoo therapy this morning the stinging numbs the mind coupled with Gabba haha.

 

[pleasuredrom2]

I'm sorry to knock, but my mum died 3 weeks ago, as harsh as it is, we are just a body. Once gone, were gone - i know that sounds bad but lets face fact - hate all these people making money on what we'd like to believe

Ur mind does lay awful with you when u dream tho - i've had some shockers in the last couple of weeks, but its just electrical impulses in the brain trying to make sense of the stress we feel

 

[martin]

My dads gone 10 years now and when i dream bout him he allways gives me a hug, Best wish's to every1 who's lost a loved 1...M

 

[stetheboro]

Well thats 3 nights on the trot now same dream same ending, and me wide awake.

pleasuredrom2 I'm like you on that thought I believe that once you are gone your gone as well.